Imperfect Scenarios Podcast
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Imperfect Scenarios Podcast
From Awkward Encounters to Dating Horror Stories: Navigating the Complexities of Relationships and Social Dynamics
Ever asked a woman about her due date only to find out she’s not expecting? We’ve been there, and in our latest episode, we share these memorable, cringe-worthy moments that come with navigating social dynamics and personal growth. With a blend of sincerity and humor, we reflect on the evolution of our understanding of relationships, and even recount the origins of our quirky pop culture-inspired nicknames. As we plan for the upcoming year, we're combining serious topics with comedic elements to keep things dynamic.
Horror movies meet real life in our discussion about family dynamics, especially when it involves metaphorically (or literally) "possessed" children. Inspired by a film with Mo'Nique and Glenn Close, we speculate humorously about the logistics while tackling the serious side of parental responsibility. Our conversation pivots to the intricacies of unconditional love, forgiveness, and moral dilemmas, particularly through the lens of a mother's love and the justice system's rehabilitative versus punitive roles. From presidential pardons to the dark alleys of rehabilitation, this dialogue is as thought-provoking as it is engaging.
Switching gears, we navigate the murky waters of celebrity influence and societal perceptions of predatory behavior, focusing on figures like R. Kelly and how they impacted us during our formative years. With personal anecdotes peppered throughout, we look at shifting norms in age and relationships, drawing from both humorous and haunting dating stories. We wrap up with a mix of wild dating tales and safety concerns, highlighting the unexpected twists and turns of young love and the red flags we sometimes miss. Join us for laughs, gasps, and plenty of "Did that really happen?" moments.
I was never educated about feelings and, speaking candidly, cared less about who you was or if you was getting mad at me. Cracked jokes on KB. Once I sorted and pissed him off. I kept going Like water under rivers, half frozen. I asked the chick how many months cause her stomach looked like she was pregnant. She was just fat. Told me to go to hell. Inside of a sentence. Showed my offsprings things. Their response showed they detested it. What I wanted for them was best, but within it they was neglecting it. All right, it's 2025. Perfect scenario, with no exaggerations or glorifying the hyperbole. Spoke wrongly about Shalit when I should have addressed him directly.
Speaker 2:Could have talked from man to man in a shot.
Speaker 1:when we first connected, cursed my dad out like no biggie. Ironically, I was with Eric Taylor and stole candy for the school.
Speaker 2:When Big Cliff worked at the merit station.
Speaker 1:That's a deadly combination to sound up my father. In theory green, I'm so well with a brother, euless. I used to skim straight off the top but he was high so he was coolest man who'd hit 145th and got it for wholesale I got mad and refused to leave till they reduced the price like curtail you might call that finessing, but I call it putting us at risk.
Speaker 1:The spot could have got raided, a rude boy could have had one heck of a plot twist and a guy outside guitar center made arrangements to buy his turntable. But I went inside and bought one with a warranty to return.
Speaker 4:I actually, I actually decided, when I get, like, when I turn like 40 something, I'm going to just start going by Kitty.
Speaker 3:What's the background behind that?
Speaker 4:Well, I mean, I don't know you ever saw that 70s show?
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 4:The mom's name is Kitty.
Speaker 3:I think it's cute. I don't know. People look at that differently though.
Speaker 4:Oh well, I'll be like almost 50, so it's whatever.
Speaker 5:I guess, Listen, whatever you wanted to go by, I was going to call you Kitty and I had the alternate version of why you wanted to be called Kitty.
Speaker 4:Well, that part too.
Speaker 5:I was like okay, girl, you got that, what's up, it's up what's up?
Speaker 4:It's Peaches Ow.
Speaker 2:Parrish, my nickname is Beef, okay.
Speaker 3:Where's the Beef?
Speaker 2:I was always getting in trouble. I was in the streets, oh so Beef, beef.
Speaker 5:Okay, gotcha, okay, it wasn't no leaf we don't have no beef in here, right cause I messed you up no, no, we good.
Speaker 4:I don't want no problems, bitches you heard about me, right.
Speaker 2:I heard you'd be drugging people no diddy, no diddy, no, bill.
Speaker 3:I heard you'd be drugging people. I know right. No ditty, no ditty, go Bill. So I'm on Perfect Scenario. You know my real name, governor, miss Tyson, but I go by Perfect Scenario and once again, this is Imperfect Scenarios.
Speaker 3:We want to start off the new year. Hopefully, we can get this going. Once again, we got a couple of new people, some people that's coming back. I just want to make this an ongoing thing. I'm going to try to get some topics out, maybe, hopefully, once or twice a month. Just keep it simple. We're going to still have the same shenanigans With the whole gang. Sometimes it's going to be serious, sometimes it's going to be More comedy. It's's gonna probably be a lot of a lot of porn again.
Speaker 3:Most likely that that did pretty well. It did pretty well, uh, for the last two years. So, um, let's start off with it. Let's start off with a, a topic that we, um, that we had started um prior to the recording, um, that I don't know. Cat don't want to talk about it, but you, you could, cat, you can stay out of this one, but you can add your two cents into it because I think, I think it could go into a couple different areas and, um, it's more of a less serious um a topic, but I believe that we could kind of stretch it to something that's more um, it's more serious. Um, we've posed a question, because this is some funny shit, okay.
Speaker 2:The question was I don't know if you saw the movie with Monique where one of the kids were possessed and she had to go to the house that had Andrea Day in it. Was it Glenn Close? Glenn Close, no, I have not seen it had Andrea.
Speaker 5:Day in it. And was it Glenn Close? Glenn Close, I want Deliverance. Yes, no, I have not seen it. But I heard about the nappy pussy.
Speaker 3:Oh, I forgot about the nappy pussy part. She's like you got a nappy pussy.
Speaker 4:That's what the child said in the movie.
Speaker 3:No, that's what Glenn Close said.
Speaker 5:They said she played the hell out of it. Oh she did.
Speaker 3:Yo, she should have got an Emmy for it. I know it's not the type of role, but she did it. She did it good Because she was a white woman with a black child, right.
Speaker 5:Yes, she was Caucasian, like the Cajuns.
Speaker 3:Right. So yeah, she was a white woman that dated a black man and had a black child.
Speaker 5:Wait, what's the question Hold?
Speaker 3:on oh, that was actually her child.
Speaker 4:It was her child.
Speaker 3:No, it was the mother. She was the grandmother?
Speaker 4:She was the grandmother. I thought there was an adoption situation.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, it was actually her grandchild.
Speaker 2:No, because she was biracial.
Speaker 3:Biracial right?
Speaker 2:Did you see the new Exorcist movie with the two little girls? One was black, one was white?
Speaker 4:No, I don't mess with them type of movies.
Speaker 3:Oh you sound like Kat.
Speaker 4:See, I just said that, so I don't mess with those movies.
Speaker 3:So we can still pose the question, though.
Speaker 5:That's fine, but I can't tell you nothing about the movie.
Speaker 2:Okay, but the scenario was that what if your kid had got possessed right and then he got, I guess, demonized or cleaned or whatever.
Speaker 3:You still keep the kid so so it's funny. So in a movie, this, this little the little, the little girl was going ape shit. She's doing all like I'm talking about, like you know the old school climate doing all kinds of shit, climb the walls throwing up the sun was fucked up too. Oh, the sun was messed up too, and of course they did the um, did the exorcism and cleaned it, and they made it seem like they were just going to live happily ever after, like it was the end of it.
Speaker 5:You're going to look at the kid sideways, but yes, you keeping a kid. What do you mean? But, my thing was.
Speaker 3:But you're going to do it, you're going to throw it in the trash.
Speaker 5:Well, my thing was is that what if they get demonized again?
Speaker 2:you know like you know like they catch. You know like they catch covid, or like a cold, you know, because now they're acceptable to then they say that in the movie that the kid is susceptible to this stuff now because like this might be, like this might be chronic they would call it chronic.
Speaker 3:This might be chronic condition, I don't know I'm keeping them.
Speaker 5:Ah, that could be god testing.
Speaker 2:You like listen, I'm good see, we on the same page, but see, the other thing was too what if you had two kids and like one kid was constantly hurting the other kid?
Speaker 5:right that was one of the things you're just gonna have to stay with me like we're gonna fight you know what I'm saying like, but we're gonna work through it okay, so you have.
Speaker 3:So you have two kids.
Speaker 5:You got one, that's constantly it's different, like when you have a child that you've grown in your body from like inception until they are delivered. Like it's a different feeling, like I could see how a man could.
Speaker 3:Be like so okay, so now when? So now we posed a question on the hilarious side, but now let's go serious. Now you got the same kid and let's take all the superstition stuff out. And it's the same kid is molesting the other kid or doing something like very unethical to the other kid, like how do you keep?
Speaker 3:that kid or demonic. I mean you can look at it both ways, because it's the difference. Because I know people are like like, all right, my son is um raping my other kids, he has to go to a home. It's kind of the same thing if you think about it yeah, but you don't like give the kid away.
Speaker 5:Like you know, there's obviously some interventions right like you have to try what you can do. There's something wrong in that situation. You have to try to remedy it. Remedy it and fix it. You don't just like be like all right, you did something. Peace out. Like those are real life situations but one day.
Speaker 3:One day, if it's just, it was, it's not working. Now.
Speaker 4:It's going on a couple years now and I hear what you're saying and I'm gonna be the same answer it's your kid at the end of the day.
Speaker 5:But you know what? What do you talk?
Speaker 2:it's always easiest to say what you would do in a situation for sure and when you're not in a situation. Right, you know now I'm not saying I would. I would give away my kid right.
Speaker 3:But I'd be like damn. This is possessed again it'd be a lot of yo. It'd be a lot of discussions. It'd be a lot of discussions at night.
Speaker 5:I'm like listen we got to lock this nigga in the room there's interventions that you could do to you know, ensure the other child you're gonna lose some sleep.
Speaker 3:Right, you're gonna be, you're gonna go through it hyper vigilant like I hear y'all, I hear y'all, I hear y'all, I hear what they gotta go somewhere to you know, rehabilitate or do whatever like that.
Speaker 5:You you can't provide that care in your home and they got to go somewhere. That's understandable because that's a real life situation. But like what else are you going to do? Okay, so didn't because obviously, if they're going through those things, they coming back. You could kick them out, but they still don't come back that's true.
Speaker 3:So I guess I kind of know what you guys answer to my next question, because I had a, I'm on social media and I've been watching these debates and all this other stuff and the whole thing about biden um partnering his um his son. So I'm assuming you guys would do the same thing for your kids I know I would stick beside him so what so is it a line.
Speaker 2:He was donald trump so listen, is it?
Speaker 5:do you have a line? Minds are here, do you have a line?
Speaker 3:Do you have a line drawn Like okay, let's just say he committed mass murder? Is that a line? Like you know what my son needs to stay behind bars? Is that a line?
Speaker 5:Do you have a line? Knowing the I'm not going to say justice system, right, but knowing that system. I would know Me and mine is coming up out of there. We'll deal with it at home.
Speaker 3:That's if you make it home. So you don't have a line. You don't have a line when it comes to dickhead. What about you guys? You got a line Like is this something that your son could possibly do? Be like you know what Right Do you be like he has to stay in prison.
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I think if my child, if my adult son kills a child, I think that.
Speaker 3:Or like a baby, I think that's it yeah, I, I think I have a line too. I I really think you know when you start going into like murder and death, depending on what the circumstance, if it's like accident. I'm talking about he's like playing out like I went. I went out to kill this little kid, like it's got to be a line like, but you have to also think it comes back to religion and spirituality.
Speaker 5:Right, like I believe in god, right, I am not god. I can't judge or cast judgment on anyone for what they do, right? I feel like whatever you reap, what you sow, right, and that's an individual between that person and god. So I'm and God, so that's not me. So I'm going to stick by because they're going to get whatever is coming to them.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I get it. No, I get the whole thing.
Speaker 5:So how could I be in? A position to try to punish them.
Speaker 3:But I just think I know a lot of times we say that like, okay, god this, God that. But I believe he gave us free will and I believe that he wants us to make the best decision possible and to say that, okay, I'm just leaving it in his hands, like I think you mentioned that before you want to keep it in his hand? To me it's like okay, I wonder if he wants you to make the decision.
Speaker 2:It's funny that you say that, because I think, as black people, we believe in God so much to where it may cloud our judgment Exactly.
Speaker 2:You know, and I'm not saying it's for everything, but a lot of times we say leave it in God's hands and we pray and stuff, but I think it has to be something to where God puts something in you, to where you know, to where you have to be like you know what I can't, or you know you shouldn't, or why would God put you in a position to have a child that's doing these things?
Speaker 4:so there's a lesson, and maybe there's some area where you do need to grow, but I don't think that God gives you more than you can handle.
Speaker 3:I agree with that.
Speaker 4:So to commit a murder, everybody's going to be against that, right? Yeah, no one is really going to show any forgiveness. What is it to add on to that? Like everybody says the thing about— but we the most forgiven people on this earth are we are we people?
Speaker 4:yeah absolutely, we are, we absolutely are okay to our downfall sometimes yeah, yeah, exactly yeah okay, but forgiveness looks a little different, but when it comes to these type of things, I don't know if it's necessarily forgiveness, um, but to love a person through their shit unconditionally unconditionally that's a really. That's like that's hard. I feel like that's harder than anything else and sometimes that's the only.
Speaker 5:You can only get that from a mother y'all ready to be out.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying. But you could love, you could love a kid. You could love a kid in prison, like I could still love you. But you need to be where you're at because you don't know how to act and I can't have you out there committing murders and just getting away with it. It's for every consequence, for every action is a consequence and I believe what are you teaching your kids? You did it, but I love you so much You're going to come home with me. I'm going to ride did it, but I love you.
Speaker 3:I love you so much. You're gonna come home with me. No, I'm gonna ride with you. Right, you have, I could love you. I'm gonna. I'm gonna come see you every day. I'm gonna put money in your comments there. I'm gonna do all that stuff. But you, you are where you need to be, because you can't not be around other humans. You don't know where you at, you just can't. So that's how I look, that's how I see it. You know, I mean no I'm not one of yours. No, don't Believe me.
Speaker 2:He was a serial killer.
Speaker 5:Right. So then you have a mental health problem. Let's get you some help.
Speaker 2:Some people just can't be helped.
Speaker 4:I don't believe that.
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 4:I don't think that some people just can't be helped.
Speaker 3:You think everyone could be recovered.
Speaker 4:So what is the purpose? What is technically jail is supposed to be for rehabilitation right?
Speaker 3:Well or not our jail system, I know but it's supposed to be supposed to be right, it isn't right.
Speaker 4:So you rather see people just sit behind bars and not get any type of rehabilitation? Or should I pull my child out and really work on my child at being the best version of themselves or whatever it is that they got going on, or do I just let them rot, watch them waste away with with no real like?
Speaker 2:help yeah.
Speaker 4:What do you choose? I choose to help my child. I'm pulling them out.
Speaker 5:Okay, I'm leaving with me in mind.
Speaker 2:I hear you, I hear you, you're right. Women do have unconditional love. They do, they do. I think with men we have something Rational love. It's called rational love.
Speaker 3:Men have rational love. We rationalize it because I get what you're saying. I definitely get what you're saying and I just know that some people, no matter what you do, the wheels are just spinning. Some people, some people, no matter what you do, you, the wheels are just spinning like it's some people you just can't help, at least not now, not what our current uh therapy and medication. Some people just cannot be helped like some people like evil right.
Speaker 5:So with the current situation, with um biden parting his son for whatever he did, you would pardon your son oh, hell, yeah, yeah so what's the limit? Like murder?
Speaker 3:no, murder is not even my limit. So they. Ultimately, it all depends on what type of murder no, it's because you know it's levels to murder how many?
Speaker 2:no, it is levels. How many murders right like what?
Speaker 3:what's the like if it was my son fighting somebody and he and they? Was fighting and he hit him, or was he? He had like going back and forth shooting at each other and he shot somebody and killed them and murder. Oh, I'm going to get this guy before he get me. Those are totally different ones, did you see?
Speaker 5:that video on social media with Big Ang. You know who that is from Mob Wives. No, she died. She had like all the plastic surgery and stuff and she was sitting down to lunch with her son a guy that she met and she was like, oh he's, he's get. He just got out of jail for murder like you know, the murder and the son was like well, that's not bad, that doesn't make him a bad guy. Oh shit, that makes me think of.
Speaker 3:But think about it, though, because you know his levels to murder. Like you know, it depends what you know justification. Now, if he just got up in the morning like I'm going to take this car and ram, go through this crowd and just run everybody over and kill him, that's like totally different than me and him beefing, and I'm getting him before you get me type of thing.
Speaker 4:You have to go into what was happening before right like what triggered those thoughts of waking up and running and people don't just wake up like what is it that? Uh, from dark knight. Like people are, they're not like born villains that's true, villains, they're made so what is it that we missed?
Speaker 5:right like yeah, so, or vegas so you know what?
Speaker 2:I have a theory on that, which one? The vegas part, okay, well, well, no, the new orleans guy, okay, okay, god, I ran all those people right because he was in, he was in the united states military, right, and I think he went over to iraq or whatever. Uh, he went over there, he fought, but I think he probably because, because he was muslim himself, right he was.
Speaker 2:He was yelling about the terrorist organization, right, but yeah, but I think he probably saw how the United States was treating his people and I think maybe that could have been a trigger or like maybe that you know, because what would make you do something like that when you go and you deploy?
Speaker 5:that changes your mind. Do something like that to where you want to go, when you go and you deploy that changes your mind.
Speaker 4:You put people in a state to be killing machines and then you bring them back to civilian life and expect them to be normal.
Speaker 3:With no services.
Speaker 4:You expect them to just kill a bunch of people in a different country and come back and just go to the grocery store and say, hey, how you doing it's ridiculous.
Speaker 5:It's dramatic for people in the military because I had a close person to me who was and deployed several times and they came back and they're like listen it's you jump up in the middle of night when you see headlights coming down your street because you don't know what's going on, or and they wake up out of bed ready to like doing the motions as if they had their AK with them, you know, to get ready to shoot somebody, you know but, also, when you go to Afghanistan and Iraq, you have to remember these countries don't have medical services.
Speaker 5:So when the United States goes in and they're in these countries, they are the ones providing medical treatment to people, right? So it's like they have to make sure that these people who have come sending children to with bombs on them to blow up the us kids, you know stuff, the, the, the, our military. They have to treat them. You know what I'm saying. So imagine seeing that on a consistent, daily basis.
Speaker 2:Like, of course you're gonna come back well fucked up exactly yeah, with no services and no support from your country but if that's the case too, think about how we grew up seeing all of this shit now that's trauma that needs to be addressed. You know, we grew up with all of this Hell. Some of us grew up with damn near serial killers, Like I grew up with guys that killed four, five, six guys, you know.
Speaker 3:I know guys that killed four, five, six guys. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, I mean, so I get what you're saying, so you know so.
Speaker 5:That's just trauma. Stateside Trauma, right Local trauma that's just trauma stateside.
Speaker 1:Right Local trauma.
Speaker 3:Domestic trauma. So I do get it. I do get it, that you know.
Speaker 5:I'm starting to get depressed. Can we talk about something else?
Speaker 3:No, we definitely can transition. You want to go straight to Tomfoolery? Let's talk about sex. You want?
Speaker 1:to go straight to Tomfoolery.
Speaker 3:You want to go straight to Tomfoolery? God damn.
Speaker 4:I think this is enough serious talk for now.
Speaker 5:Everybody needs help.
Speaker 3:Well, to close this topic out, so I get it. So women and guys think different when it comes to the kids. I know women are more emotional about it.
Speaker 1:We riders.
Speaker 3:No, I'm not saying we. I think guys ride, but I just think guys sit back. You know what it is. I think guys will sit back and think about it. I think we probably would do the same thing, but we have to more ration out.
Speaker 2:I think we think about protection of the rest of us, the rest of the family, right. You're not looking at it like that. You're looking at it from emotional Right.
Speaker 5:But if you're coming from protection. What position do you play in there? And I'm not saying that to be like something funny or negative.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 5:What position do you play in that protection you?
Speaker 2:got to think about the rest of your kids, your wife. That's true, think about the rest of your kids, your wife.
Speaker 3:That's true.
Speaker 4:But what about your child that's in this system, that is not built for them, that their very existence and being in there could make things worse?
Speaker 3:That's true. So what if you got not just one child? You have a few children at home and he's a danger to all the rest of you and other children. You're just going to still let him come in. That's something you got to think about. That's just like me having all my kids at home. One of my kids go out, get this crazy virus that could kill everybody, and then I'm like, well, you got to come back out because you're still my kid. Well, you.
Speaker 5:So there's alternates, right Like to coming in the house, but you're making a plan for them.
Speaker 4:You're not just like leaving them and like disowning them.
Speaker 2:Well, no, we're not saying that.
Speaker 4:You're like saying make a new one. You said leave them in a jail and you said we can make new ones.
Speaker 5:Tyson said leave them in a jail.
Speaker 3:Leave them in a jail, leave the asses in jail.
Speaker 5:You said, we can make new ones.
Speaker 2:Hey, listen, I'm just saying I ain't trying to be funny To get it out the darkness to get it out the darkness, to get it to something funny.
Speaker 3:Jail y'all act like jail is like these niggas be rushing back to jail.
Speaker 4:So jail ain't what we think it is, that's not true.
Speaker 5:No no, no.
Speaker 3:I don't know them niggas faking, but they be on Instagram with them burner phones and be making cakes and shit on the stairs and having fun.
Speaker 5:It's nothing for them out here.
Speaker 2:So they're getting three squares a day. Hold on, I thought you said they got programs out here to help them Right, listen, listen.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you, I'm going to tell you this is coming from a guy that had been locked up, not me.
Speaker 5:One of my friends is saying he's been locked up, so you've never been locked up, I've never, been locked up.
Speaker 3:I've never been. That's fine with me, Listen. So this guy told me he's like. They said that sometimes most of them is like college they feel like they're in dorms and shit.
Speaker 5:So you don jail or if it's a prison, I got locked up once Locked up abroad is probably the worst. So remember, jail and prison are two different things now. So I'm talking about prisons. Prison is probably better.
Speaker 3:They say jail like county is like they don't want to go there.
Speaker 4:Now my mother went to prison and she did not have a good time. It was not cakes and selfies and all that kind of shit. Somebody would rape me in prison Did y'all see the video?
Speaker 3:Yeah, they would get you. Yeah, they would get you. But did y'all see the video on Instagram? No, they would, they would get you. Which one? Yessi, listen, yessi, the one video on Instagram with that? It's the guy Of like, so they interview him. He's like I'm, he's, I'm, he's, I'm, keep it real. He's like I had a ball in prison. He's like he's like I had a. I had so much fun. He said I had so much fun. He said. He said he actually did an extra year, he said. He said. He said he had a time in his life. He said he would go back.
Speaker 5:But listen when you watch some of the women's stuff they like make their own makeup Like they do. It's like they be looking fly as fuck in there Right. But I still would not go Prison rules.
Speaker 2:I still would not go.
Speaker 3:Prison rules. That's because we've been on the outside, but they be. I need freedom.
Speaker 5:Niggas yo it.
Speaker 3:Yo y'all cannot tell me Niggas be rushing back to go to jail sometimes.
Speaker 2:No. But that's a mindset I got locked up once and it took me one time.
Speaker 3:I fought a cop, but that's jail though I'm talking about prison is different than jail.
Speaker 2:Well, just being locked up.
Speaker 5:How long were you in there?
Speaker 2:I was in there a week and a half.
Speaker 5:So okay, you did a bid A minor bid a minor, a minor bit shit not even.
Speaker 2:But um, I was in there because, uh, this cop was um okay, was this last week or like years ago? This was like, maybe like two weeks ago oh, all right, I was in my 20s.
Speaker 2:I was in my 20s and brother they was in the hallway playing dice. So the cops came and, you know, raided everybody or whatever, and the girl started arguing with the cop why are you arresting my brother and all this other stuff? And you know, and she got up in the cop's face and he snuffed her Like just like boom, and he just started beating her and nobody was doing nothing and my dumb ass, you know, kind of went to her defense. Would you get some ass? Would?
Speaker 3:you fuck in there? No, I was not. I'll tell you what you do yours a dumb ass, he was doing the right thing.
Speaker 5:He was being righteous, so girl bye. See, that's the difference between you and him. I like him.
Speaker 2:I pulled him off of her. After I did that, he punched me in my face, oh shit, and I started whipping his ass. Next thing you know, I had maybe like five or six cops on me hitting me with fucking flashlights. I had glasses. I broke my glasses.
Speaker 5:I was blind as a bat. Listen, you're going to heaven for that one.
Speaker 2:And the craziest thing next thing. You know it was a full fucking riot. Like you know, everybody was jumping on the cops and it was crazy.
Speaker 5:So they got you for inciting a riot.
Speaker 2:Yo, no worse than that. They got me for breaking the entering car theft, inciting a riot, um uh, assaulting five officers.
Speaker 3:they put so many fucking charges wait, how'd they get you breaking the entering? And exactly, they were just throwing shit they was throwing.
Speaker 4:They just they found anything everything.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so they call that pat in the books or something like that pat in the file.
Speaker 2:Yeah well, the craziest shit was is that out of all of the full riot or whatever, me and the girl was the only ones that got locked up and they made her my co-defendant. So they try to make it seem like we jumped the cop, we stole a car, we broke in someone's house. It was crazy and we went to night court, maybe like two days later and they remanded me.
Speaker 2:So the next time I went to court that judge saw that it was bullshit and he was like what happened? Like when did this happen? Because something like that would have been on the news, or whatever and he was the only one that saw that it was bullshit. And um, he gave me an ror and he sealed my case thank god, you got that, but I never knew that I had all of that stuff, all of those charges.
Speaker 2:I never knew that legal aid tells you take deals and all this other shit. I never knew all of that shit was on there. It wasn't until I was working at ups to where they needed somebody to go to um, um city bank to pick up like oh, financial you can't yes so you can't have a record anything like that or whatever.
Speaker 2:So I applied for and they said, all right, well, we're gonna run a background check. So they ran a background check and saw that I had nothing. But they also interview you and they ask you have you ever been arrested? So I told him and I was like, yeah, I've been arrested. And I told him what happened. But he said, but when we ran a background check, nothing came back. I said, well, yeah, my case was sealed. So he tells me to go down to the courts or whatever, get my files or whatever and stuff. Cause it's been a certain amount of times, if it's sealed and it's you, you should be able to get it. Then he told me to bring him back the paper and stuff so that he could read the charges, cause he used to be a police officer, like a detective or whatever. You know that these companies hire or whatever Citibank hires. And he read all of the fucking charges and he was like, if you would have known what you had, he said you could have sued. Wow.
Speaker 4:Damn. The statute of limitations was over.
Speaker 2:Exactly, I never knew.
Speaker 3:Damn. Yeah, shit you talking about depressing, and that's our system. And that's our system. And that's our system.
Speaker 5:Shit.
Speaker 3:That wasn't made for you. So what next then? What's the next topic? Y'all itching for some damn tomfoolery and some damn. No but listen, but that's depressing it's life though it's our life it's our life.
Speaker 2:I got to balance it out, though. Hear you, I hear you. What was the other topics we was talking about? We were talking about everything.
Speaker 3:I mean we always, we always start, we always have the mic off just talking about random shit, and then and it just literally just happens oh, we was talking about the thing with diddy too.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, diddy and jay-z oh he's innocent, diddy, oh you.
Speaker 5:Oh yeah, diddy and Jay-Z oh, he's innocent, diddy, oh you stupid.
Speaker 3:You got to be stupid. Diddy is not innocent. Diddy do it. Well, you be Diddy-ing people so you would think he's innocent. Hey, I think Diddy did everything he said he did, except for that 13-0, that news story, but I think he did everything else. As far as those parties.
Speaker 4:I didn't hear about that.
Speaker 3:13-0 until you guys told me about it. No, that's Jay-Z, isn't it? It's Diddy.
Speaker 4:It's like Jay-Z was involved, so what happened?
Speaker 2:Here's what happened. You can tell it. Yeah, the only reason why they included Jay-z in that? Because diddy's is trying to say all my money is tied up into, uh, lawyers and stuff like that, so you can't file a civil suit against me because I have so many. So now they try to include jay-z in that and say that he was there too yes, right, and so not even so.
Speaker 3:What happened was also in addition to that. She was just saying when I got raped, it was Diddy, another rapper, and another female there. She never said names. They went to Jay-Z and said Jay-Z, listen, the girl is telling us that. Well, her lawyer said she's telling it was you, but she won't mention your name if you're settled. Jay-z said fuck you. And that's when her attorney's like well, we're going to go publicz said fuck you. And that's when he, the attorney's like well, we're gonna go public. He said you could do what the fuck you want, because it wasn't me. And that's how. That's how he was pulled into it, because he wouldn't settle yeah so, and they was trying to get a check.
Speaker 2:Trying to get a check because, remember, they have put out that 1-800 number, yeah, whoever's been touched the oh, you know, she's 46.
Speaker 4:No, I'm no, she's like. No, she's like. I want to say she's in 30 years like 20 like she's in like late.
Speaker 3:I think she might be like 30, she might be in her 30s right now, but the crazy thing about it, she included her father, and her father was like he's like I don't know what you're talking about what I did see that
Speaker 1:she's gonna claim that dementia right, I know, so somebody tell me.
Speaker 3:Let me tell you the background and Don't quote because I'm reading on different outlets. So apparently this 13-year-old came from somewhere else, somehow got to the awards. It was awards party.
Speaker 2:She was hanging out at an awards ceremony outside.
Speaker 5:The Source Awards R Kelly Broughton.
Speaker 3:No, she by herself, was it? I don't know.
Speaker 2:I think it might have been either BET.
Speaker 3:It was like one of those awards.
Speaker 4:The Grammys.
Speaker 3:So she traveled by herself. Now, mind you, she wasn't with a group of people. She said she got up and was like oh, I want to go. Right, exactly, she said. I'm a 13 year old, I'm going to go to this party because I'm going to get in, not at, the Grammys.
Speaker 4:That's why I asked if it was the Source Awards.
Speaker 2:Right, I know right.
Speaker 3:It definitely was the Source Awards. It was like one of the big awards. It was one of the big awards. Her story is I wanted to go, so she traveled there. I think she said she took a cab or something like that. She took a cab there, right. She said she couldn't get in. She said she just had. She said she was outside, she was 13. She said she was, she's a teenager. So she said she was just standing outside. She said a limo pulls up and the guy was like ho, come here. The limo driver was like hey, come here. I think I think my boss hey or ho oh no, he said.
Speaker 3:he said hey, my my boss. He said my boss hey or ho, I don't know what he said. He said hey, my boss would like you. You're something he's looking for, right? Yeah, you're his type.
Speaker 2:You're his type, you're my type.
Speaker 3:She gets in the car. He drives her all the way to the party where they're all at.
Speaker 5:I feel like that's R Kelly. They made a mistake.
Speaker 4:I said that when we were just talking, that's R Kelly. They made a mistake. I said that when we were just talking. I said you sure this isn't an R Kelly scenario.
Speaker 3:No, but this is what she's saying, Diddy. She's saying Diddy.
Speaker 4:Because R Kelly used to hang out at the high schools. Mcdonald's next to the high schools.
Speaker 3:So now this 13-year-old. So now listen. So this 13-year-old pulls up with a limo, the guy brings it inside, she walks through the mansion, she walks through the mansion on her own, and then she said she go in the room and sit by herself, and then they come in and give her something.
Speaker 2:Yeah, something like that. They give her something to drink and she passed out, she passed out. She wakes up.
Speaker 5:How does she know what happened if she passed out?
Speaker 2:Well, hold on. She wakes up and it's a bunch of niggas there. That's terrible.
Speaker 5:I'm sorry sorry, I'm laughing is diddy, jay-z, jay-z and some a woman and she said she's not gonna say a woman there, this, right here, nothing. If for what I hear about jay-z, if something happens she would know.
Speaker 4:Yeah, because he hung like how do y'all know he's a? Hitter, that's what I heard, so I told you I told you about the corinne stefan's book super head.
Speaker 3:I read that oh, she talked about jay-z.
Speaker 5:Yes, well then, that girl will remember she said he, he got some she said it was like a soda bottle, a two liter soda, yeah he he, he packed what that's just how stupid his hair, that's just how stupid it's a couple stories and they all lining up with Jay-Z, the less attractive ones usually have.
Speaker 3:I never heard that.
Speaker 5:I'm surprised. Well, he's a man, so oh, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3:That was a shot. Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow.
Speaker 2:I was thinking that too, but I was like I never heard that before. But whatever, I don't give a shit.
Speaker 3:I just made that too, but I was like I never heard that before.
Speaker 5:But whatever, I don't give a shit, I just made that up.
Speaker 3:What Marty said. He said I may not choke you, but I'm a mouthful, I don't know. I don't believe the whole shit, the whole hype. I believe he's done stuff, but I think everybody's getting a money grab At a party and maneuvering like that. Right, she's maneuvering too well, check your parents.
Speaker 5:It has nothing to do with, but you know what, or any of that?
Speaker 4:I'm gonna say that it's not too far-fetched, because I know a few women in my age range that have been in situations and scenarios that you wouldn't think at 13 though yeah and when maneuver like that and get into a side of mansion with d so did you ever have you guys books when I was 13 well, yeah, some, some people were reading books, but some people were at like, they were in areas like I don't know. Did you guys watch the r kelly documentary and see?
Speaker 3:where these? Girls were they were young, he was picking them up at McDonald's, though that's different.
Speaker 4:No, but the girl one of the girls was showing up to his court hearings outside during school hours. Yeah, she was like 14, 15. She was not going to school, she was just showing up at the court. He probably saw her and was like he saw her, but that's what that Then some of them were actually at the concerts at night, but that's different.
Speaker 3:Because he was known in the area for liking little girls, so they were like oh, he likes us, so we go. But he was known for that, though.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 1:So, it's not Diddy, though.
Speaker 3:But what I'm saying is when you think of Diddy, like some of the parents was braining these kids when you 13, when you 13 years old, you thinking like you depose a Diddy, and R Kelly you're like okay, I'm 13, I know R Kelly likes it.
Speaker 4:Everybody knows he nobody a 13 year old is not thinking they can get in a Diddy's home. Hold on, hold on. Let's think like we gotta think back was happening yeah, right like the early 90s yes, that situation, like it, wasn't seen as predatory as it is now. Wait, do you, did you guys cancel?
Speaker 5:him who are killing?
Speaker 4:absolutely no, absolutely no, not me absolutely I'm not.
Speaker 3:I pay too much money for the mark henley albums.
Speaker 4:I'm not canceling it I, so I stopped listening to his album because I'm not gonna help him do like contribute if you already bought the album and you're not contributing I ain't buying.
Speaker 5:I mean, I bought his album, I was, I was 13 listening to his his songs, but I feel like when you sing it, when you're younger, you know that you like the beat. You don't. You sing the words, but you don't know what they mean. Oh girl, no oh girl no at 13, 14.
Speaker 4:I was getting my sex life going. I wasn't having sex, but I knew. I was like oh, this is what I'm gonna do when I get old oh shit, I was like oh yeah, hit it hard from the back, roll around on the front, your body's gone. Yeah, I was getting it I knew I was like oh yeah, this is what I'm gonna be doing, oh shit I don't even that 13, I don't I was I was already playing.
Speaker 4:I wouldn't say 13, I probably was like 14 15, but yeah, I definitely was listening to them. Songs like oh yeah, this sound like this would be fun when I get older, really.
Speaker 5:Absolutely Did you ever hear.
Speaker 4:TP2? Yeah, I'm disappointed that I can't listen to that fucking album right now.
Speaker 3:I listen to it. I don't give a shit you can.
Speaker 4:I don't, I can't, I just can't Because it sounds different, because of what he did. I just can't.
Speaker 2:But what about? So? We can't Because it sounds different, because of what he did yes. Do you start watching the Cosby show? Have you started watching the Cosby show?
Speaker 4:I have not watched the Cosby show, not not because of the building, but I just. It's not something that I really want to watch. She's a different generation, though no.
Speaker 3:I watched it. I watched it, but the canceling people, because if they said I was listening to this lady, she was like you go around these stars, do this stuff and you cancel them. Yo, honestly, if you knew the secrets behind everybody, you probably wouldn't be listening to no one. So it's just like I listen to the artist, not the person, the art and the person.
Speaker 4:I listen to the artist, not the person. The art and the person. I listen to the art and the person. The only thing that got me with R Kelly is that the nigga never stopped Right. He won't stop. So obviously Jay-Z did some things with some young girls, so have other people did things with young girls.
Speaker 3:Back in the 90s they all were.
Speaker 4:That's what I'm saying the 90s were a very different time. That girl was 13. If it was in the 90s she probably very well did show up at that award show.
Speaker 2:Let me say this If you think about our grandparents and our great-grandparents, they would get married at 15, 16.
Speaker 3:Yeah, they sure was. They would start a court at 12. You talking about getting married.
Speaker 4:We're not talking about getting passed around here, but it's different they were getting married to 18, 19, 20 year old men, though it wasn't like it was, uh but it's still.
Speaker 2:I mean, I mean, I'm not making, I'm not saying it's right.
Speaker 4:I'm saying we didn't see the the. We don't see it the way we do now. You know what I'm saying. Everybody knew that alia was fucking with r kelly. I remember that like back then it was an issue. It was an issue nobody saw it as an issue parents signed her over no, I, I heard that they didn't initially sign it.
Speaker 3:It was like it happened and he hadn't.
Speaker 4:It was like they signed her over yeah, whether it was in the beginning or the end yeah, this is true, they got married it exactly, and then it got an old and all that other stuff. But the the point is that we didn't see things that we see now. I think I don't know if you guys remember roxanne, roxanne yeah, her documentary, her movie, it was great that guy yes that guy was older than her and he was dealing with her.
Speaker 4:Nobody saw those things as wrong. Nobody said, oh you can't be dealing with that young girl or you shouldn't be dealing with that young girl. That was just like the norm at the time. I know a bunch of girls in my age range. That age range, that fuck with niggas. That was 24 and they were 16, 13 yeah, I remember being in high school and like the nigga would come with a motherfucking Benz or whatever.
Speaker 5:Wait, you were the 24-year-old person.
Speaker 3:He tried to put it off. Yeah, I was there. It wasn't me, but I was standing on the side. I think about BOW to two years ago.
Speaker 2:Don't you put that on me, Ricky Bobby?
Speaker 5:I know some niggas.
Speaker 3:I know some niggas.
Speaker 2:I know some niggas oh yeah, they're like, these dudes will come by, whatever you be, like yo, son I remember that ain't that your girl?
Speaker 3:I remember that watching these you trying to kick it to a girl. She like no, my boyfriend picking me up, they pulling.
Speaker 4:He's like there you go. What the fuck? There you go. So you couldn't even get the chicks your age cause they was always dealing with dudes, that was older in the car.
Speaker 3:Driving in the car, I'm like fuck yeah gotta give me a car. I gotta give me a car and come back 20 years later not even a car.
Speaker 5:You need to get like some off the wall type of shit.
Speaker 3:I don't see how, I just don't understand how these guys could want these young girls. I don't see, I can't understand, Like I would never deal with a person more than maybe it's you know. It's like it's slim, Cause I don't cause, I'm, I'm more, I'm, I'm about a conversation. If you can't have a conversation with me, I'm, I'm done Like I was tricked one time I went to.
Speaker 5:I feel like Hold on. Let's just say Listen, listen, you're talking about he always getting tricked.
Speaker 4:No, listen I was about to say he always tricked Yep, that's him, whatever that's him.
Speaker 2:So listen, we're going to call you Trick Trick. Look, trick Trick. We're going to say common denominator.
Speaker 3:So I'm in this, we're at this to me. She bad as hell too. You know she was in there with his drink, we all drink.
Speaker 4:No, this is like years ago, I was, I was 20 no, I was in my I was.
Speaker 3:I want to say I was in, uh, I think I was still in college. I was in my 20s that was like 40 years ago. No, you stupid. So you know. Just said she was. You know we was all in there. Whatever, make a long short, we get back to our house and she had a name belt hanging on her wall.
Speaker 5:I was like is this the one with the roaches?
Speaker 3:No hell, no she had a name belt. She had a name belt hanging on her wall. So I was like, oh shit, because I still had my name belt. So I was like I said I still got mine from the 80s. She said I still got mine from the 80s she said, they just came out like last year.
Speaker 3:I was like what? I said no, they came out in the 80s. She said, no, they didn't. She said I said I still have mine from like 86. She's like, no, let me call my uncle. She calls her uncle. He's like yo, baby girl, those been out since the 80s. She's like I never knew us. Like I was like I said how do you not? That was like the main, one of the main things that he's like you.
Speaker 4:Everybody had a name belt, so I was like a bedazzled name belt. No, it's just a regular, regular one, right, she just had a regular one so I don't know so you had a name belt in the 80s, yeah, and it said in the 80s?
Speaker 5:yeah, I see. No, it did not say tyson, so so anyway, so that's real zesty and spicy.
Speaker 3:I'm just saying we all had, oh you in the 80s.
Speaker 4:You didn't grow up in the 80s, I did not in the 80s hold on.
Speaker 2:I remember them.
Speaker 5:I'm asking you did you have one?
Speaker 2:I did not have one but, everybody I knew had one, everyone had one. So when they rolled back, around in the 2000s.
Speaker 4:only the girls had the name belts, the 99s and the 2000s Right, I didn't still have mine I'm talking about.
Speaker 3:So I was Do you still wear it? No, she still shut up. So she still had it. So she still had it hanging on. So I'm thinking like cause, you know, like just just like a, just like a momental thing. So I was like, oh, shoot. Then I said wait, how old are you? She's like I told you I'm 22. I was like no, you're not. I said you kind of not remember what we were doing in the 80s. And she's like okay, I'm going to be honest, I'm 18. I was like.
Speaker 5:Is that the?
Speaker 3:real story. That's the real story.
Speaker 5:Did you fuck with her, though what do you mean, did y'all fuck?
Speaker 3:around Like in the beginning. Mm-hmm, I mean before I left.
Speaker 2:That's what I was getting at Like. Is this the real story? Well, he was like. Before I left, I had to get a stink finger. No, no, no.
Speaker 3:No but no, but it was after prior to me, asking that you know how you get yourself together. You walk around looking, you try to make conversation. I'm like yeah, this is nice Trying to get out the house. I was like huh. I was like I'm out. I remember she kept calling me. I was fine.
Speaker 4:But that wasn't too bad. You was 22?.
Speaker 3:I was like 20. I want to say 22, 23.
Speaker 4:She was 18.
Speaker 3:To me it just graduated last year, but it bothered me, though it just bothered me.
Speaker 5:If she is of age, what is?
Speaker 3:the problem, because at 18, you have nothing to talk about with me.
Speaker 5:There's nothing we can talk about. That's a personal preference.
Speaker 3:So would you judge. That's why I said that's me, her personally.
Speaker 5:I can't, because have like people who are older, right, that are like 10 years older than their wives or 10 years older than their husband that's different when you, once you get up and up in the ages like 40, 50, but like talking about sometimes 20s, 30s, like I had a 30 year old pretending to be a 23 year old when I was 18 I mean that probably work, because they're immature he was he.
Speaker 4:I told. He told me he was 23 and you believed him, right? No, I didn't I asked what?
Speaker 3:what do you look like? He looked like he was 30 no, he was black.
Speaker 4:He was black, but he didn't look 30 right. But he kept reminiscing about the old days in high school and I was like fuck you, only 23, why are you reminiscing?
Speaker 3:yo niggas, like yo, I remember back in the day but I was always 23 so it was confusing to me.
Speaker 4:I'm like damn you, only 23. What's the problem?
Speaker 2:it's not making sense that was only like 3 years ago.
Speaker 4:You need help with your homework then he pulled up on me in some leather pants and okay. Yeah, that was a telltale sign and he thought he was fly too. I said I know nigga lying. Yeah, no, no, no he still held, he held it down, so he was 23, and then he finally admitted like after I stopped talking to him, he was 30 I think that's so corny though that you gotta be, very corny like that and they were like 10 years older than I was.
Speaker 5:Like why would you lie? Like that? Don't make sense. Like why would you lie about your age and?
Speaker 4:see, for me I never liked older men because I felt like at 30 if you're trying to date somebody 18, I mean you can't really hang with the women your age oh, you want to control them yeah, but I just felt like for me personally, I was just like you really don't have anything to offer me because you don't have one. You don't have anything to offer women your age, like.
Speaker 3:If you're looking for a younger woman, there's something wrong yeah, like you can't guys that I know that try to go back that way. It's not that they don't have them they be having the older ones with them but they be thinking all could control this young girl.
Speaker 4:Oh listen, he ain't had nothing going on, honey. Yeah, I love the pants but let me tell you. He told me he owned the house and union right girl. We went to the house, me and my girlfriend, because I ain't go by myself. I wasn't playing around. We go to the house. He, like you, gotta be quiet.
Speaker 2:I said well you're gonna wake up my roommate he like oh, my sister live here, right.
Speaker 4:So I said, okay, so we in the basement. I said so you live in a basement and your sister just take the house. Oh, no, nigga, you live with your sister In the basement. So he must have thought I was 18 and I was dumb, but I wasn't. You know, I was young but I wasn't dumb. Yeah, I wasn't duck, so me and my girlfriend had a field day with his ass. I was like this your sister house.
Speaker 3:Wait, was the basement finished? Though that makes it different.
Speaker 4:It was a fucking mess. A mess, the finished basement and we had to whisper the whole time we was in the basement. He's like we're not doing this. Bye.
Speaker 5:Yo, you 18,. You loud as hell.
Speaker 4:Exactly.
Speaker 2:Girl, I couldn't stop laughing. I just laughed at his ass the whole night.
Speaker 5:You know what His mother condoned it she's bringing in young girls.
Speaker 3:I'm sick of this shit, so wait. So what is your worst dating experience? What was the worst date? That you oh shit, I got one. I got hundreds of them, but go ahead, okay.
Speaker 4:So I used to go to karaoke I'm young and popping and this guy wanted to take me out and I was like pushing him off a little bit. Then I finally said I'd go out with him and, mind you, I'm on my own, I'm young and I was like oh, we'll meet at Red Lobster. That's where we went.
Speaker 3:So we're red lobster. You know that's back in the day. Red lobster meant drugs, the salad and the biscuits got to pop in. You're definitely getting some ads when you go to the red back in the day.
Speaker 4:So we having a conversation and he's telling me about like his kid and how he took on his girlfriend's child and stuff like that. And I was young and ignorant. So I'm like okay, why are we talking about your kids? Like this is the first date, like what the fuck? There's too much. Like I ain't coming here to be your step, like nobody's stepmother and all that. So I was like can we talk about something else? Because he was getting real like emotional and stuff and I was like yeah, can we switch the topic? And he was like I'm gonna go to the bathroom. This nigga left.
Speaker 2:Okay, he never came back okay, and keep in mind like I was broke as hell.
Speaker 4:So the bill wash, the dishes girl, the the waiter was really nice. He was like, oh, I would never have left you here. I was like he was trying to hit too basically right, he's like god he's an opportunity yo, that's it.
Speaker 3:He was a nigga. He was a nigga, wasn't he?
Speaker 4:that's some nigga shit boy.
Speaker 5:I got a way you can work off the bill nigga shit right there, boy.
Speaker 4:But basically I just had to pay for my meal. He took off his meal. He was real nice. Um, yeah, and this fool gonna say he left money on my dashboard for the meal or some shit. I'm like okay, but yeah, that was like the worst day. I was so grateful that I drove my own car because this nigga would have left me at red lobster there was no uber, none of that.
Speaker 3:It was very lobster 22 we should pull them on blast I would say, that's my worst date you got one so maybe a guy that I dated.
Speaker 5:So this one comes to mind.
Speaker 5:So I was like 23, 24 after college and I stayed um near the college. This is before I started working at my current job, which I've been at for a while. But I started working at wachovia, which is a bank. Oh, I remember wachovia just because that was the first. You know that I needed to make money, right, I was first time moving out of the house and you know I needed to make money. So I was like young dumb, um, and I started dating the manager at the bank, right? So I'd be like I want a longer break. Like can we arrange that?
Speaker 3:see how they do. No, but wait till you hear the story right.
Speaker 5:So he was very good. He was actually Jamaican. He was like from Jamaica. So he came over like he was working at the banks or whatever, and he was like oh babe, like I bought a new BMW, can you go with me to pick it up? Right. So we drove to Edison, which seemed far at the time like from cause I was working in like Ewing, which is by Trenton, so we would travel up. We got his BMW and he's like oh, I'm getting a new apartment, do you want to like help me furnish it? And then we'll like move in together eventually. I'm like, okay, so he would give me his credit cards and I would go buy, like I was like furnishing this whole house at 23 or 24. So when I went to go give up my apartment, I was planning to give up my apartment to move in with him. And one day I was going over to the house. I was supposed to be out with my friends, so we went over to the house and I couldn't get in, or something like that.
Speaker 5:So I started fucking knocking on the door. Bitch was home, so he opened the door and there was another bitch from the bank in Calicoys. I was like what the fuck are you doing here, Daisy? I'm shouting that bitch out because she's now fucking down and out.
Speaker 2:Was this last?
Speaker 5:week. This was last week. Just happened last week, so I'm like what the fuck? And he's like, by the way, he was like I'm fucking with Daisy now, Like we're like over whatever. So at the door, at the door oh shit Damn, no notice.
Speaker 5:My friend was with me. So I was like what the fuck's going on? Like that had never happened to me before, like being dumped by somebody you know what I'm saying or like just that whole situation. So my friend was with me, so after we were like, okay, we're leaving, she was like let's piss in something and pour it in his um car. No, like so. And you know how. Like when you turn on the heat and the um air, the vents, oh shit.
Speaker 5:So I was like I was I can't do that, so she did it which?
Speaker 4:I love her to this day. That's a real rider right there. Yes.
Speaker 5:So, anyway, so eventually. So we ended up, you know, obviously like not seeing each other anymore. So I ended up getting the job at the current job that I am and I started working at an office. So one day my phone rings at my desk in this new job, in this working for the state, and they're like, oh, is this, you know whatever? And I'm like, yeah, and they're like this is so-and-so from the FBI. Yeah, do you have some time to talk to us? I'm like about what? And they're like about his name was richard. I'm not gonna say his last name, but I was like they're like, do you know him? I was like, yeah, I work with him. Like I was like, didn't disclose my like personal relationship. They're like, yeah, well, he's actually we're investigating him for stealing from the bank.
Speaker 5:oh shit so I was like girl, good thing you got up out of there, right I was like you didn't see me on camera like spending any money at the stores, right like because he did give me his credit cards and I was driving the bmw so they were like. So they were like um, I was like well, what do you like? What's going on? And they were like oh, we're investigating him for fraud and for stealing. So what ended up happening was snitched he no, listen. I didn't want them to know. I was like listen when I was there because I really didn't know what he was doing like I had no idea.
Speaker 5:So what he was doing was, like you know, at the end of the shift, where the manager goes and counts your money right like just to make sure, like with you, with you, right you count your money in your drawer. But if somebody was like, oh, I gotta go to the bathroom, he's like, oh, don't worry, I'll watch your drawer, and he would steal like some money off of their thing. And if they would come up like uneven, it would be on the person but, within a certain amount.
Speaker 5:The bank doesn't see it as like a loss. It's like within like 10 or something dollars. So every shift he was doing that to people over years. But he, when the atm person came in to like refill the atm, he was a fast counter so he was skimming off the top of every like atm shipment. He like stole over four hundred thousand dollars from the bank.
Speaker 5:But the feds were watching him because you know, once they get you and they realize they think you're doing something, they watch you yeah, they watched him for a while and he ended up getting like fucking I don't know something in federal prison like years, rich, um, and I remember like getting texts from this like random number and they're like he's like, oh my god, I fucked up, like I should have like done the right thing and stay with you. I was like oh my god and deleted it, but I think that probably was by far my worst dating experience Shit.
Speaker 3:God damn. I was like, but you didn't share anything with me.
Speaker 4:Oh girl.
Speaker 5:That was a blessing, yeah.
Speaker 4:I thought we were just talking about a date, but that, yeah, that's terrible.
Speaker 3:I think my worst dating experience was with this girl. I'm not going to say her name because she passed away, she passed. Oh, hell, no, I don't even gonna bring her, but she passed this one passed away um not too long ago, but like yesterday, no so it was just years ago, but this is years ago, but I think.
Speaker 3:So it started. We were dating, everything was cool, and you know, she was just one of them girls. I was like, oh, she's just too beautiful. And I, she just everything just wasn't right with her, like, for instance, one time she always wanted to drive. She drove a stick.
Speaker 5:She was really a man.
Speaker 3:Shut up. So we went to the we was going somewhere and I got in on the passenger side. It was like a big envelope. I was like oh, you got an envelope on there. She's like what is it? I open it up. It was like two thousand dollars in cash. I'm like yo, this is. I'm excited, thinking she said, oh, give me that. It's just like oh, that's probably from my ex-boyfriend. I was like wait, what do you mean? She's like oh, you know christmas, he always um that's the type of shit I'm talking about yeah, so he's she the notes.
Speaker 3:I'll open it up. She's like he. The guy said I know you got another man now, but I'm still gonna take care of you. This is is for you and your I'm not gonna say her daughter name. This is for you and your daughter. I was like what the fuck? I was like I was like okay, I was like it was shit, like that was always happening. I was just like that's just the craziest, the craziest like money, like if she be sitting and gifts be coming to the house, and it'd be like you could tell you Like I know you're not feeling me, no more Like that type of stuff. So I didn't feel like you know there was anything going on.
Speaker 2:I don't see a problem. He was like Cuddy in Dead. Presidents.
Speaker 3:See baby girl in the back. So this is so. Now mine is she. Always she stayed with money. So one day she was like yo, you know what, you really treat me good. I'm going to do something for you special. I'm going to want you to come to my house. You have Come to your house. I'm going to make you this big dinner. She's like we're going to be romantic and all of that. So I'm excited because I'm young. Nobody ever did that to me. Before I get to the house, I'm sitting on the couch and she's in there cooking. I'm hearing all this stuff. It smells okay, you know I'm not seeing nothing.
Speaker 3:So I'm thinking I'm like, okay, she must be like a lot of things going on in the background. So I was like, oh, this shit is gonna be kind of dope. You know the candles she comes out I got. I went to the bathroom. I'm in the bathroom. I hear her uh setting up and stuff. I come out. I come out to the living room. She had one, one of them wooden folding tables.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it was that, it was tea candles.
Speaker 3:It was plastic plates, plastic spoons, it was. It was what's that shit called Hamburger helper with butter bread.
Speaker 5:Was it good?
Speaker 3:And I swear to God it was the red cup of Kool-Aid.
Speaker 4:Oh, she did her thing. Y'all was like she put it down.
Speaker 5:Okay, so I feel some type of way. Yo, y'all were young. What's going?
Speaker 3:on.
Speaker 5:But still I know she's been treated.
Speaker 3:But you understand, I know she's been treated this a girl that's been Taking like Expensive restaurants by extravagant. So I'm thinking my mind Like she knows how it is To be Treated. So I'm thinking I'm about to get this treatment that she used to get and I was like she was treated that way, that she wasn't giving out the treatment Right.
Speaker 4:Well, I know, I know that now.
Speaker 3:I know that now, but I was like yo to this day. I'm offended.
Speaker 5:You ungrateful motherfucker.
Speaker 3:Yo don't tell me you give me. I'm about to get a best in a round. You make hamburger helper.
Speaker 4:It's two steps in hamburger helper Did she say?
Speaker 3:It's browned in meat.
Speaker 4:Did you eat it?
Speaker 3:Did you eat it? Yeah, and the shit was bland as hell.
Speaker 5:All right, that's not good you feel like maybe you should add some seasoning up in here, we'd be all right.
Speaker 3:So I think that was my worst when it comes to dating.
Speaker 4:I was like yo, this girl, she could have went to West and Beef and got some pre-made shit, the pre-steaks.
Speaker 3:But you see what I'm saying. This is a girl that's been flown out to places, so she knows how it.
Speaker 5:To be honest with you, coming from a woman, I had home training, but you do find women that get that type of treatment and they don't know how to.
Speaker 3:They don't know how to do it. They don't know how to do it they don't cook or they don't do whatever, you don't have to know how to cook, that's what they do paper plates and plastic you could have. She has dishes. She thought she was being efficient because she said I'm not going to sit here cleaning. I know exactly. If the shit was reversed, the roles reversed, they'd say look at this nigga.
Speaker 5:No time out, because she could have been like oh, let me do some paper plates because I don't want to spend my whole night cleaning up the kitchen. I want to suck this nigga's dick.
Speaker 4:There you go. That's what I was thinking. She's trying to leave more time for some action.
Speaker 2:What if y'all would to get you a can of tuna fish or something? Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4:Younger me I done. Went to some fucking trap houses. Thank you, and I was like damn and you had the best time. Yes, I did.
Speaker 2:And it's funny that you mentioned trap houses this nigga is in a trap house and he was kind and he made tuna.
Speaker 4:And he cared for me.
Speaker 3:I was like this might be the one you guys' stances is crazy.
Speaker 5:It works okay.
Speaker 3:You guys are all over the scale with your stances tonight. Shit, because if a nigga would have pulled up on y'all, it's a thought that counts. If a nigga would have pulled up on y'all and did the same thing, y'all would have been like yo look at this nigga, no hold on the person I am today?
Speaker 4:no, absolutely not. Am today? No, absolutely not, but 18 year old me yeah, she knows, and it's reversed for me.
Speaker 5:So if, okay, in my younger years I would have probably been that way, I probably would have been like what the fuck is going on with this, like, but for me now it's the thought that counts, like if you don't have certain, but you try, I can work with you I don't know if you're trying, though hamburger helper is trying.
Speaker 3:Yo, yeah you know how many hours you gotta go past To get to the Hamburger Helper.
Speaker 4:But what if she really was trying, like that was her best, like she really didn't know how to cook?
Speaker 2:Well, her best ain't shit, right Fuck that shit, fuck that shit.
Speaker 5:Have you moved on to Someone who could cook?
Speaker 3:I mean it doesn't matter, at least if you try. Oh my God, if you try to cook, it doesn't matter, but she wasn't trying. How do you know? She was young though. We was in our 20s. That's still young. It was in our 20s. Okay, I get what you're saying.
Speaker 4:You expected her to throw down mac and cheese.
Speaker 3:You are not going to win. She served it on a plate.
Speaker 2:Okay. I get what you're saying. You expected her to throw down that mac and cheese. No, I don't, because she, you are not going to win she served it on a plastic plate and plastic spoons.
Speaker 3:She could have did. Okay, forget the cooking part.
Speaker 5:The aesthetics you wanted. A hard plate Aesthetics is different. What else did she do for you in the entirety of your relationship? Were you happy otherwise?
Speaker 4:I mean I do for you in the entirety of your relationship. Were you happy? Otherwise, I mean I was okay.
Speaker 3:Tyson was bougie back then that wasn't bougie. It wasn't bougie, but it just think about it.
Speaker 5:I just chief these niggas are flying this girl out, so that means, if they was flying, if they was flying her out.
Speaker 4:That means that girl ain't never had to cook before what was you expecting, because I can tell you right now, I was not cooking at 18, 19, 20. I didn't start cooking until I had a child.
Speaker 3:She had a kid, she has a daughter, her daughter. At the time I was about to say her daughter name and everybody knows her daughter. So she had a daughter, a daughter lived off a hamburger.
Speaker 2:What am?
Speaker 4:I about to say. A daughter lived off a hamburger helping. She probably had a good meal.
Speaker 3:I don't know I'm just talking about she had a kitchen. We could eat in the kitchen we could.
Speaker 2:We should have folding chairs, plastic fork, plastic spoon and red cups with Kool-Aid hold on, her daughter's gonna hear this and say you know what? Fuck that nigga, my mother made the best hamburger in the world.
Speaker 3:She's the hamburger helper queen. Fuck that shit, you know what's crazy.
Speaker 4:She probably perfected that hamburger helper for you and you would be complaining.
Speaker 3:No, that shit. No that shit ain't had no taste to it.
Speaker 5:So that's the worst thing you had that they made some jacked up unblended hamburger helper. Even if she would have seasoned it, it would have been a little bit better. You had a good dating career or life.
Speaker 3:I don't know.
Speaker 4:I think that she tried. She had candles.
Speaker 3:No, no, she had tea candles though the tea things.
Speaker 4:What was the sex?
Speaker 3:like afterwards. I'm going to keep it real. That shit was the bomb. There was a helper involved.
Speaker 4:It was a win at the end of the day.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean, but I'm just talking about the whole the interplay. Bougie no, it's not bougie, because she said she's like oh, I'm going to, you don't understand how she souped it up. She souped it up like it was going to be like some shit.
Speaker 4:So now? So when men say they simple and they don't need much, lies? Lies Because at the end of the day he had bomb ass sex after the hamburger held for him.
Speaker 3:And he still wasn't. That was his worst date there you go. Go ahead, beef. Tell your story, because you're right.
Speaker 5:I'm not going to win. I told you it wasn't going to go back and forth Don't even start, no bullshit what's up?
Speaker 2:Yeah, okay, there was this chick I used to try to fuck with back in the day. She was bad dark skin Like last week, yes, last week and and we started liking each other and stuff, and you know, we started calling each other. Mind you, we used to live in the PJs, right. So, finally, when she was like all right, come to my house and say my brother ain't going to be there, right? So I'm like, all right, I'm going to fuck.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2:I said my brother ain't going to be there. You know I kid you not. I go over there and it's like 15 niggas in the motherfucking house chopping up, cooking up and shit like that or whatever, but you mind your damn business, didn't you?
Speaker 5:But, they look at him like who the fuck are you?
Speaker 2:I knew some of them, but they didn't know that I was messing with her or whatever. So she was like y'all move out of the way. So she brings me in the back. I couldn't even fuck Because these niggas is out there making this fucking noise. I was like yo. You know what you got to focus. I'm just going to go home. I'm just going to go home.
Speaker 3:I got a similar story, but the niggas wasn't in there cooking. It was roaches. So I get to her house, I get in there and the house smelled like bleach. It was clean, it seemed clean. You get in the kitchen. There was a puppy chained to the wall with roaches all over it.
Speaker 5:The roaches all over it. You're so fucking bougie, it's ridiculous.
Speaker 3:I don't give a fuck. Listen, there was roaches all over so I was like you know what? I'm still gonna fuck. I don't care, I'm gonna still do this shit. We go in her room and I'm like it's just like you. You never been to a house where just so many roaches like everything you touch just kills them I'm out of there.
Speaker 4:I ain't staying in nobody's house.
Speaker 3:That's like yeah, but I'm a nigga, so I, because you know, I still want to.
Speaker 4:I was not smashing a nobody house with roaches, so listen to this.
Speaker 3:So I know she's kind of feeling Some type of way Because I'm like flinching and shit, and so Let me tell you something. Let me tell you what I did. Let me tell you she tried to give me some food and I was like, yeah, I'll take some, but I ain't never eat it.
Speaker 5:You gave it to the dog.
Speaker 3:No, I just put it on the table. I was like I'm not really hungry, so let me tell you some ignorant shit. I did and I feel to this day I feel bad. So we're about to go, we're about to fuck. She's like you want to take a shower first. Like no, I'm good, I ain't getting enough shower. So she gets in the shower, comes back. When she comes back, I had took my my. I had tims on tims, took off my, folded up my pants, my shirt and everything and I put the Timbs on her bed. She's like why the fuck you got your boots on my bed? I said, oh, these are some new shits. I don't want them. Shits on the floor.
Speaker 3:Meanwhile it was just roaches. I was like she's like no, why don't you at least put it on my dresser? Why would you do that? I was like okay, whatever is, she wasn't embarrassed by the roaches. She was starting to get embarrassed, but I think I was making her back. When I first went in she was okay, that's not good. So yo, it was this one roach. I didn't say to the people listen, they cannot see my wall. So we got. You see that, that round thing on the walls. It was a roach that big. I swear, I swear on everything.
Speaker 5:I love it was one of the size of a dollar, a circle dollar yeah, like one of them 50 cent coins.
Speaker 3:It's big. It was just standing there with the antennas looking at me. I was just stroking and just watching. He said he was next. Yo, I could not focus on her. She's like what's wrong? I had to get up and I just left. I could not do it that day. It was just. I was like I'm done. So the funny thing about it. So like maybe three days later, because I used to take that route to go to work by her house. Three days later I'm passing a house. Why is it? It's a termic terminex or something outside her house. Well, exterminate the house. I was like damn, I made this girl go get a sermon later she needed it.
Speaker 4:She needed it because that's uh. So I thought we were talking about like dates. I like dating experience all kinds of shit.
Speaker 3:I would say he was a lot for me um, just a lot like he was cheating.
Speaker 4:It was a lot. It was a mess overall. But I remember telling him that I was going, we would like date in seeing other, but I wasn't really like we were towards the end of our relationship so I told him I was going to sleep and I really went out to New York and was partying.
Speaker 3:You need to die. That sounds like you want to die. Really Shit, if you were laying in my bed and you're going to tell me you're going to sleep and then you're going to go to a party.
Speaker 4:We didn't live together.
Speaker 3:Oh, okay.
Speaker 4:I thought to a party. We didn't live together. Oh okay, I thought you, I thought you're living.
Speaker 3:Okay, no, we didn't live together, but we were dating or whatever um. Are you married?
Speaker 4:no, we were not married exactly problem, keep in mind, we were young, okay, 18, 19 okay, what's number three? All right. So I guess I I might have pocket dialed him. It was one of these phones like the Blackberry, but it wasn't a Blackberry, but anyway I pocket dialed him or something. I'm in New York, keep in mind. New York parties don't end until like 4 or 5 O'clock in the morning, so I didn't get back to. Did he listen to the whole thing?
Speaker 3:You're supposed to be home asleep, right?
Speaker 4:I don't know what the fuck, but when I pulled up this nigga was in front of my house.
Speaker 2:Hold on the fact that you had a car when you was like 18, 19 like I'm still.
Speaker 4:That is impressive. Insurance was high as fuck I know it was pulled up to my house. He's like come get in the car. It was very eerie. I was like, do I scream now or do I get in the car and play it calm and cool and collective? Right, I get in the car. This nigga had a gun on his lap.
Speaker 3:Oh shit.
Speaker 4:Yes, it was serious. I was in the car.
Speaker 5:You're like oh, daddy, I won't do it again.
Speaker 2:You said daddy or diddy.
Speaker 5:Diddy.
Speaker 3:Whatever works at the time.
Speaker 5:Daddy, diddy, whatever, the fuck.
Speaker 4:Listen whatever he want. Daddy did he listen whatever he wanted. I was in that car, like I really, like I really was in a car so what did he say? Damn, this might be my last day of living like for real. For real, he was just like. I can't even remember the conversation because you know how you just like, so nervous I don't know what the fuck transpired. Yeah, I don't know what transpired, I just remember being very agreeable like yeah, yeah, sure, okay, yep but was he abusive anything like that prior or?
Speaker 2:any signs or like oh, absolutely.
Speaker 4:Um, there were definitely signs, like I said, he was a cheater. So there's, I learned a lot from that experience. Um, yeah, so prior to he had like a bunch of shit in his phone with women and titties uh, pictures of titties with syrup on it. What the fuck he?
Speaker 5:he definitely signs like he was definitely crazy um, those are the signs you're like oh, there's nothing yeah, yeah, yeah yeah like loves me so good yeah, this listen when
Speaker 4:you young it was mediocre. I think I just was like younger me, was just like really into the idea of love, not necessarily like all the other situations, it was just more of that. But yeah, he was definitely cheating like call his phone back to back to back and bitches pick up that's what all men do all the time yup like black men don't cheat, didn't he say that?
Speaker 4:yes, he gave me a run for my money. I'll say that definitely gave me a run for my money. He was a little, yeah, I think. Yeah, the signs were there. This nigga tatted my name on his chest. He was. I wonder if it's still there. I wonder too. I be thinking like do he still got that big ass tattoo?
Speaker 5:You should call him and ask him.
Speaker 3:Yo get his number. One day we're going to do a podcast and we're going to call him.
Speaker 4:No, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 5:I'm outside our house right now. What are?
Speaker 4:you talking about? Yeah, no, no, no, no with him like that.
Speaker 3:He in Jersey, we in PA. Fuck that shit.
Speaker 2:I don't know where he at.
Speaker 4:I don't want to know where he at.
Speaker 3:Honestly, just keep it real. He probably a pastor somewhere.
Speaker 4:He did have to change his life because, you know, niggas was after him. He had to go in a different direction, definitely.
Speaker 5:He's like it was Malcolm X. Wow, that's a stretch.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so I thought I was gonna lose my life that night? Definitely, I don't think I ever you said you what you almost lost your life behind a girl oh, you, probably.
Speaker 5:You said no, I'm gonna tell you how I got abducted, and this was actually last week. I almost got abducted last week, girl.
Speaker 3:Yes, oh yeah, this was last week. Oh, the real official last week okay.
Speaker 5:So anybody who knows me knows like I'll be going out at night because the bitch can't see. Okay, I'll be driving.
Speaker 2:I'm like I'll just stay my ass home.
Speaker 5:So my girlfriend had asked me to go out to something, and it was just past saturday, um the 28. And I was like fine bitch, I'll go because she'd be asking me and like I never go. So it was in Elizabeth, New Jersey, and so it was like a restaurant, like lounge type area, so it was like in, I guess, the main part of the town, but then there was like no parking around the club. So I parked on a side street and it was raining out and I had just that day straightened my hair. So I was like if I go outside and I get my hair thing, it'll go poofy because my hair is naturally curly. So I had a shower cap on but I still put my jacket over top to like walk, you know, up to the place or whatever.
Speaker 5:So when I was walking, um, and it was kind of dark or whatever, but I was like it wasn't too far from the place, so I had almost run into this guy, right, who was walking the opposite way and I would. He's like did I scare you? And I was like, no, I was like you know, I'm sorry, Like my bad, I wasn't paying attention, Whatever. So he stood in front of me. He's like well, where are you going? I was like, oh, to this place over here, Like.
Speaker 2:Hold on. What was the nationality?
Speaker 5:He was probably like he was some type of Hispanic, okay, whatever, by his accent and the area we're in, that's what I'm assuming um. So he was like well, he's like, um, where I was like, oh, somewhere up there, because I'm not telling you where I'm going, because you're not fitting to follow me. So he was like well, why don't you get in my car and I'll drive you over there? Bitch, by the time it's you know, whatever. So I'm like what? And I was like no, I'm okay, thank you.
Speaker 2:So he was standing in my way.
Speaker 5:He's like no, get in the car. And I was like no, I'm okay, thank you. So he was standing in my way. He's like no, get in the car. And I was like what like do people actually? In my mind? I'm like, do people actually fucking like do this shit? So my son and I had just watched a movie called the black phone. Have you ever seen that movie?
Speaker 5:yes, that shit is good yes, but it's about being a fucking abducted yeah so I was like, oh my god, I gotta look it up like this is.
Speaker 3:I'm about being a fucking abducted, yeah.
Speaker 5:So I was like oh my god, I gotta look it up like this is I'm about to be fucking abducted, like so I started like my body started like getting into like fight or flight because he then he took my arm and he was like no, get in the car oh wow and I was like what the fuck are you talking about?
Speaker 5:so I was like no, like bye. And I just started walking and he said something. I turned around, looked at but he was like saying something like oh yeah, mommy, like like something along. So I was like bitch, whatever. So I started fucking running. I had these like knee-high boots and fucking high-ass heels and I was like fucking trucking it like through elizabeth which, if you know me, I don't run, right so but I was like, oh my god, like that was a crazy experience for me. I never had someone like being like like on my arm, like get in the car. Like I started looking like what does he have in his hands, like I'm looking about my surroundings, like is there someone else?
Speaker 5:yeah me like it was like one of those situations, like I was generally like was he an older guy?
Speaker 3:he's an older guy or young guy?
Speaker 5:he had to be like maybe early 40s, late 30s, something like it was somewhere around thick accent yeah, he, you could tell that he was like foreign I was like am I about to be trafficked like they would they? Would they would try to like do things to me the fucked up shit about that is.
Speaker 2:You know, before you say some racist shit, you say I don't want to sound racist. You about to say it. And this might be another topic With a lot of the immigrants coming over here, y'all see how that immigrant had lit that lady on fire.
Speaker 3:Oh, yeah, y'all see that shit. Yeah, on the train.
Speaker 2:I didn't watch it and he was standing there, I couldn't watch it. And he was standing there, I didn't see it. I watched it.
Speaker 5:I watched the whole thing, but he was standing there like he was trying to help, but he was really the one who set her on fire.
Speaker 2:And the crazy shit was motherfuckers taped it and didn't fucking.
Speaker 3:Did you see the cop walk by, did you? I didn't see it.
Speaker 4:I didn't watch stuff like that, and he just kept it moving.
Speaker 3:The cop was like mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Looked at it, he's like mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
Speaker 5:Because he probably sees shit like that, but it was like he, like he even tried People are desensitized.
Speaker 4:People are desensitized, yes, but that's how?
Speaker 5:I felt.
Speaker 3:I was like it's cold in here, give us some drinks, you would. You would have got it.
Speaker 2:Give us some drinks, you would escape I'm hungry, I'm cold mommy, mommy, mommy, okay, bye, and he would have dropped me back off.
Speaker 5:That's besides the point. But still, like I was, like generally, I haven't felt like scared in a long time.
Speaker 4:That's scary and that was scary.
Speaker 5:I was like that was last week in jersey.
Speaker 2:Are y'all allowed to carry it's?
Speaker 3:a process I don't know, I'm from.
Speaker 5:I'm from pa now and you can carry yeah yeah um, it's a process you have to go through, like to get your.
Speaker 3:You can yeah, in jersey, when I used to live in Jersey, you have to. So they go by the, they go by the county. It's by the county, go by the county.
Speaker 4:Definitely have to take a class.
Speaker 3:You gotta take a class now, when I was there, you didn't have to take a class. Now you gotta take a class and they want you to be like, trained to be able To do all are sometimes but a pa. You pay your little 25 and walk up to walmart and get your gun yep, I could go right on mainstream and buy me a gun, yeah.
Speaker 4:But I was like what the fuck?
Speaker 5:yeah, people are like losing it. I'm like, does this shit work for you? Like you tell people get in the car like they go? Probably yeah young enough.
Speaker 3:You get it. Young enough and dumb enough yeah.
Speaker 5:So you know, I got home I told my son I was like oh my god, guess what happened to me. He was like you really were scared about that movie, right?
Speaker 3:I'm like no, that's not the point I was like what's it called phone, the black phone, the black phone.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'm gonna look that up, it was all right.
Speaker 4:Human trafficking is a real thing, like you know oh shit, do you understand you?
Speaker 3:I mean, you are, you know.
Speaker 4:Well, we took that training, but you, it ain't no joke we the only I think we part of the only people trained for that nonsense not I want to say nonsense, but that my homegirl works for the fbi in the human trafficking unit.
Speaker 5:She has to travel every year, like to different places, but the main ones are the with super bowls super, yeah, super bowl night is a as a main oh yeah, because they want that action.
Speaker 3:Right, it's the highest they plan years in advance. It's the highest day of traffic in the Super Bowl, it's the whole weekend.
Speaker 4:And I think they say like it's the areas, the interstate, so we live off of 80.
Speaker 3:And those are 78. All the airports in that area. You know it was within a 50 mile radius very high traffic areas a lot of those they ship in, a lot of these Asian, these Asian workers who you know basically got to pay the mule. I know you all know about paying the mule and all that other stuff.
Speaker 5:I had one. I knew that the children would be in traffic, but it was for labor yeah, what about the ladies in the nail salons? Yeah, definitely, when they picked up in the van.
Speaker 3:If you go to Ironbound in Newark, a lot of those workers in the restaurant are paying off their debt to be here. Absolutely yeah. We got a couple of families from there that told us we got to pay off our debt.
Speaker 4:Yeah, they can't get their information, all their credentials.
Speaker 3:And they won't ship their families in.
Speaker 5:so we're back to depressed.
Speaker 3:I know, hey, we're back to depressed.
Speaker 2:I think, I started it. Let's talk about sex. Let's talk about sex.
Speaker 5:Let's talk about sex, Sex baby.